You probably know that the vast majority of people shrink back from the very idea of public speaking.
The fear of public speaking including not being heard, clamming up and potentially making a complete and utter fool of yourself plagues so very many people you would not believe … or actually maybe you DO!!! I know at one time I certainly did!
The more practice you get the more comfortable you can become with public speaking. My own experience of this was, initially it terrified me! Honestly it did. And at some point I realised and grasped what I can say has massive meaning and value to me as well as others.
We all have thoughts, feelings and insight we want to share with the people we really want to connect with. Remember … Your purpose in public or group or peer speaking is to share how and what you feel, think and know for a purpose that is bigger than you that will benefit all.
The Common Problems
There are three very common and often interlinked problems for people facing public speaking and they are this :
- You have ( in the past ) had one or more experiences of doing this and it going horribly wrong.
- You have worried and worried and worried and … Dun It And … What happened … It went HORRIBLY.
- You have worried and worried and worried and … Thought The Worst And … You haven’t even done it yet!
So what is your solution?
Clearing up any problems from the past and literally putting that out of your mind. The past is the past, yet it can come back to haunt you … unless you deal with it.
Starting to cultivate the attitude of what you actually want to have happen. Not what you don’t! The attitude of a truly positive outcome where you are fully able to speak your truth from your heart is empowering. You feeling congruent and confident in and with what you say will show.
Knowing your true purposes and motivations will help you set a direction and focus your intention to talk from your heart and also be heard.
How You Can Speak Your Truth From Your Heart
I can help you remove blocks from the past, set your focus on what you want and make you purpose clear … So you can … speak publicly with a real conviction and congruence.